Today we’re talking about the here and now. The past is gone and learning how to deal with the future is the key. I want to give you the confidence to leave the past behind you and move forward to make 2018 the most successful year yet.
The way you adapt to life and respond to life, the way you modify how you respond to the past and your past experiences will reflect on how you deal with life in general. Today we will talk about the importance of letting go of the past to hold on to the present and grab a successful future.
You must let go of the past to be able to hold on to what you have in the present or to even see what is happening in the present and of course, to be able to hold on to the future. This will give you the confidence to progress into your future.
Many of us are burdened right now; we’re so heavy because we’re carrying a lot of burden. We’re carrying past wounds, past pains, past anger, past experiences, failed relationships, failed businesses, failed attempts at a career. We’re carrying all of this and it is sitting heavy on our shoulders. This is seriously affecting our confidence levels, how are you supposed to move on from the past and grow with all of this weight on top of you?
Now, one thing I remember that my father always told me when I was younger; he always said that when the student is ready the teacher will appear. But how can the student be ready so that the teacher can appear? It means that you have to cleanse your mind, get yourself prepared, you must forget the past but not be in denial of the past.
You must accept that the past was a part of your life and it has made you who you are today. Your past happened to allow you to learn certain lessons that cannot be learnt elsewhere. Once you have accepted this you can finally move forward from it. You can grow your confidence from then on, once you have made it past the hardship, accepted it and now, finally, you can move on.
It is so important for us to be able to learn how to deal with the future you can do this by dealing with those things in our past that have dragged us down, that have caused confusion, depression and continuous failure. If you hold on to past pain I promise you there is no way the teacher, your success or your confidence can appear. When you hold on to things that are bitter you will never get the confidence you need to be the success I know you can be.
Learn from your past, accept that it is part of your legacy and move on to start dealing with the future.
Until next week, stay positive and have the confidence to move forward. I believe that 2018 will be your year for success you just need to put the demons of your past to rest.